The Truth Shall Set You Free
After a short conversation diversion to why I think sg men are 现实 (where I have to explain what I meant by practical, a direct translation in Chinese of what I meant, but not really what I meant, and I used up all the vocabulary I think is close to the meaning but not very close), I have been thinking about what do I actually meant by that. I mean, I have been mentally using this chinese phrase to describe sg men.
Oh well.. Don't worry if you do not understand what I mean.
I think what I am trying to say is... That Singaporean guys couldn't be bothered to give an explanation when they do something. (I am reflecting from past experiences as I attempt to address this.)
Those buggers never give me an explanation why they they stop communicating with me. They just leave things as they are, and left the situation as is, leaving me wondering.
I mean, the least they could do is to tell me why, you know. I am one kind of a person who does not like to be left in the dark. Tell me the truth, I can handle it. It's when you do not tell me the truth that I get pissed.
I don't know if I speak for myself only, or do the other ladies feel the same way. I just think the sg guys don't have the balls to face the truth. I mean, what's the problem? At most, I hear the truth, I cry, feel sad, and I will get over it.
It's the attitude of their cannot-be-bothered that bothers me. I expect men to at least have the integrity to do that. But those I met didn't do it. Very disappointing.
Like I said, it's those men that I have met. Maybe it has never happened to you, readers.
My point is: If you dare start something, stick to your guns and finish it. Even if it means that the venture is going to be a failure. Don't just leave things there. Be responsible. Be accountable. Have integrity. And give integrity to the people involve. And the work you have done.
Is that too much to expect from men?
Oh well.. Don't worry if you do not understand what I mean.
I think what I am trying to say is... That Singaporean guys couldn't be bothered to give an explanation when they do something. (I am reflecting from past experiences as I attempt to address this.)
Those buggers never give me an explanation why they they stop communicating with me. They just leave things as they are, and left the situation as is, leaving me wondering.
I mean, the least they could do is to tell me why, you know. I am one kind of a person who does not like to be left in the dark. Tell me the truth, I can handle it. It's when you do not tell me the truth that I get pissed.
I don't know if I speak for myself only, or do the other ladies feel the same way. I just think the sg guys don't have the balls to face the truth. I mean, what's the problem? At most, I hear the truth, I cry, feel sad, and I will get over it.
It's the attitude of their cannot-be-bothered that bothers me. I expect men to at least have the integrity to do that. But those I met didn't do it. Very disappointing.
Like I said, it's those men that I have met. Maybe it has never happened to you, readers.
My point is: If you dare start something, stick to your guns and finish it. Even if it means that the venture is going to be a failure. Don't just leave things there. Be responsible. Be accountable. Have integrity. And give integrity to the people involve. And the work you have done.
Is that too much to expect from men?
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