Sick Of Selfish Men
Selfishness. Finally, I've found the word that I've been looking for to describe the local guys.
My title was taken from an article featured today. The writer was describing how her girlfriend knew that she has found The One. The One's act of puttinq up with her tendency to throw up as a result of stomach intolerance was commendable. Then the writer related on how her ex-s treated her brought home an alarming character of men. (I can't say it's for sg men only, cos she was not specific on the nationality of the men.)
Again, I want to maintain that this statement does not apply to all men, or all Singaporean men. It's just that with every of her own example the writer listed on the paper, I find it somewhat similar to my own encounters. Especially the last one. Some examples are unbelievable, but true. And yes, they are not written for dramatic effects. I have heard of men who shove their "girlfriend" into undesirable situation just so that they can be exempted from hardship, or whatever uncomfortable situation they are in.
The sub-title may hint that this is written as a guideline for women to nail THAT ONE. But it really isn't. It is really about gauging whether that man is worth the while. Well, the writer admitted herself that there were blunders that she made too. So it's not always the trouble with men, I agree.
However, I drop the newspaper clipping here, so that you too will know that being selfish could only put you in a bad light. And like I emphasise always, don't just think what you do will be witnessed only by the girl alone. When the word gets out, you can imagine the impact it has on your reputation.
I don't think anyone of us can ever be selfless 24/7. However, do spare a thought for your girl. Or even gal pals/friends. TLC (Tender Loving Care) is always welcome in the women's arena.
My title was taken from an article featured today. The writer was describing how her girlfriend knew that she has found The One. The One's act of puttinq up with her tendency to throw up as a result of stomach intolerance was commendable. Then the writer related on how her ex-s treated her brought home an alarming character of men. (I can't say it's for sg men only, cos she was not specific on the nationality of the men.)
Again, I want to maintain that this statement does not apply to all men, or all Singaporean men. It's just that with every of her own example the writer listed on the paper, I find it somewhat similar to my own encounters. Especially the last one. Some examples are unbelievable, but true. And yes, they are not written for dramatic effects. I have heard of men who shove their "girlfriend" into undesirable situation just so that they can be exempted from hardship, or whatever uncomfortable situation they are in.
The sub-title may hint that this is written as a guideline for women to nail THAT ONE. But it really isn't. It is really about gauging whether that man is worth the while. Well, the writer admitted herself that there were blunders that she made too. So it's not always the trouble with men, I agree.
However, I drop the newspaper clipping here, so that you too will know that being selfish could only put you in a bad light. And like I emphasise always, don't just think what you do will be witnessed only by the girl alone. When the word gets out, you can imagine the impact it has on your reputation.
I don't think anyone of us can ever be selfless 24/7. However, do spare a thought for your girl. Or even gal pals/friends. TLC (Tender Loving Care) is always welcome in the women's arena.
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