Know How To Flirt

 

Seriously. I think alot of good guys in Singapore do not know how to flirt, hence, they lose out to the empty vessels out there who flirts alot and breaks hearts.

So if you think you are one of those blokes who has a good heart, yet always baffled at why you never manage to get the attention of ladies, I think you gotta learn how to flirt with the girls.

It doesn't mean you need to spend alot of money. It doesn't mean that you need to use a lot of time to prepare it. It's simple and impromptu. Basically, it tests on your ability to hold on the attention of the lady. And then drop it, and life goes back to normal. After that, you feel good, and so does she.

So, to my faithful followers, are you ready to FLIRT, FLIRT, FLIRT??

Basics to flirting 1234.
It may be a women's site, but hey, flirting works both ways :)
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirtbasic.html

AskMen: Top 10 Signs She's Flirting With You
http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_60/80_dating_list.html

Social Issues Research Centre
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html

The Truth Shall Set You Free

 

After a short conversation diversion to why I think sg men are 现实 (where I have to explain what I meant by practical, a direct translation in Chinese of what I meant, but not really what I meant, and I used up all the vocabulary I think is close to the meaning but not very close), I have been thinking about what do I actually meant by that. I mean, I have been mentally using this chinese phrase to describe sg men.

Oh well.. Don't worry if you do not understand what I mean.

I think what I am trying to say is... That Singaporean guys couldn't be bothered to give an explanation when they do something. (I am reflecting from past experiences as I attempt to address this.)

Those buggers never give me an explanation why they they stop communicating with me. They just leave things as they are, and left the situation as is, leaving me wondering.

I mean, the least they could do is to tell me why, you know. I am one kind of a person who does not like to be left in the dark. Tell me the truth, I can handle it. It's when you do not tell me the truth that I get pissed.

I don't know if I speak for myself only, or do the other ladies feel the same way. I just think the sg guys don't have the balls to face the truth. I mean, what's the problem? At most, I hear the truth, I cry, feel sad, and I will get over it.

It's the attitude of their cannot-be-bothered that bothers me. I expect men to at least have the integrity to do that. But those I met didn't do it. Very disappointing.

Like I said, it's those men that I have met. Maybe it has never happened to you, readers.

My point is: If you dare start something, stick to your guns and finish it. Even if it means that the venture is going to be a failure. Don't just leave things there. Be responsible. Be accountable. Have integrity. And give integrity to the people involve. And the work you have done.

Is that too much to expect from men?

Pathetic...

 

is what came to my mind when I saw a young man in the train today.

I came into the train at Dhoby Ghaut station and saw him stood in front of him. He was sitting at the corner seat and... Digging his nose. His posture contorts to such extend that it seems like he is trying to squeeze into every inch of he corner of that corner seat.

His shirt was too big for him, and I can see that he wore a T-shirt inside. He has earphones on and he was busying punching his handphone.

He look weak and confused. Which automatically connotes that he is not someone who is firm in decision making, or even, makes any decision at all. I don't like (I'm sorry) people who look weak. If anything, look confident. Not weak or helpless. Especially if you are a man.

I have a feeling that I will report more of such sightings...